Saw photos today of the wife, online. At a wedding they were at yesterday. She looked gorgeous. Beautiful, radiant.
I so wanna tell her that her husband fucks around.
But what good would it do me.
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Hi,
I've been reading your blog and find it very interesting: a new slant on affairs with married men. The "other woman"'s side. There are not many blogs with this perspective on the web. Thank you for sharing.
I am the wife of a man who had an affair; maybe still has. I can tell you one thing: of everything that happened, I feel more cheated by the fact that I wasn't told of his infidelity. I was robbed of, cheated out of options. If he wanted to have an affair, why not tell me, "listen I met someone...etc". Often, the glue that holds an affair together is the secrecy, nothing else. But sometimes, it is the real thing...you will never know if you don't test it. Either way, I wanted to know, so that I could exercise my options: stay, leave, whatever. I am still struggling to come to terms with this facet of his betrayal: the secrecy.
My life is actually rather complicated, even though I personally am not.
I'm 40, and not unattractive. Slim, take care of myself, reserved. A mum of a bunch of beautiful kids, single for a few years now.
He - I'll refer to him as B - is 7 years my junior. Married to - from the pictures Ive seen thanks to a certain networking site - a smiley cutesy wife. 2 gorgeous very young boys, and lives only 10 minutes away. He is a musician and entertainer.
We met briefly at a gig he was doing in 2009. We didn't even speak, but he is the first man that I ever remember making me feel that I wanted to take into another room and rip his clothes off and ride him. As raw as that. Just one look, and I was gone.
Now of course, thats all changed!
1 comments:
Hi,
I've been reading your blog and find it very interesting: a new slant on affairs with married men. The "other woman"'s side. There are not many blogs with this perspective on the web. Thank you for sharing.
I am the wife of a man who had an affair; maybe still has. I can tell you one thing: of everything that happened, I feel more cheated by the fact that I wasn't told of his infidelity. I was robbed of, cheated out of options. If he wanted to have an affair, why not tell me, "listen I met someone...etc".
Often, the glue that holds an affair together is the secrecy, nothing else. But sometimes, it is the real thing...you will never know if you don't test it.
Either way, I wanted to know, so that I could exercise my options: stay, leave, whatever. I am still struggling to come to terms with this facet of his betrayal: the secrecy.
You must tell her.
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